(CNN) — During the middle of winter in the Northern Hemisphere, the days are cold, dark and short. Itโs not an inspiring time to accomplish much of anything, much less those New Yearโs resolutions that so motivated you back on December 31.
Early backsliders may have already called it quits. Twenty-eight percent of people who make resolutions have dropped at least some of them by the end of January, and 13% report they have dropped them all, according to a 2024 Pew Research Center survey.
Of course, health-related resolutions, such as exercising more, often top peopleโs lists of resolutions, according to a poll by The Associated Press-NORC Center for Public Affairs Research. Getting more physical activity is a worthy goal: Science has proved many times over that movement is beneficial to our overall physical health โ it improves our mental well-being and contributes to longevity and happiness.
Still, simply being aware of the benefits doesnโt always translate into sticking to a resolution to exercise more, day in and day out.
โWhy arenโt people moving their bodies if they know exercise is good for them?โ psychologist Diana Hill posed to CNN Chief Medical Correspondent Dr. Sanjay Gupta recently on his podcast, Chasing Life. โWe know itโs good for us physically. โฆ Mortality rates go down, cancer rates go down. But only about a quarter of us are actually doing it.โ
When it comes to starting to move, Hill said, many folks are able to come up with plenty of reasons not to โ whether itโs the general โI donโt have enough timeโ excuse or the more specificโฏโIโm on my feet all day.โ
โThereโsโฏa lot of inner barriers, psychological barriers to moving our bodies,โ she said.
Hillโs recent book, coauthored withโฏbiomechanistโฏKaty Bowman, isโฏโI Know I Should Exercise,โฏButโฆ: 44 Reasons We Donโt Move and How To Get Over Them.โ Hill and Bowman run through all those reasonsโฏpeople use to avoid exercise, work through how the brain is trying to trick you and explain how to overcome that particular trap.
You can listen to the full episode here.
โMotivation is more of a wave than it is a consistent thing,โ Hill said. You may sign up for an afternoon exercise class after listening to this podcast in the morning, but by the time the class rolls around, your motivation may have already waned, she added.
How can you keep up your motivation to exercise throughout the dreary days of February and beyond? Hill has these five tips.
Change your relationship with time
One of the top reasonsโฏwhy people sayโฏno toโฏexerciseโฏis because they feel they donโtโฏhave enough time, Hill said.
That excuse, she pointed out, actually has more to do with an individualโsโฏrelationship to time.
โMovement has been sectioned off into leisure time,โ she told Gupta onโฏtheโฏpodcast. โMany of us feel like weโre having to choose: โDo I go to the gym after work, do my bikeโฏride or do Iโฏgo getโฏgroceries?โโ
Hill encouraged people to shift from this โeither/orโ mindset to a โboth/andโ mindset, which opens up more possibilities.
โWe can integrate our exercise and our movement into the time that we have,โ she said. โWhenโฏIโmโฏat the airport, I will carry my bags up the stairs just like a farmerโs carry.โ
She also uses time at her sonโs baseball games to walk around the field cheering him on, instead of sitting on the sidelines.
Your perception of how much time you feel you have โ a concept called โtime affluenceโ โ is influenced by how you are spending your time, Hill said.
โOur time affluence is malleable,โ she said. โWhen we are doing things that are meaningful, we feel like we have more time.โ
By moving your body in more intentional ways, you might end up feeling like you have more time as a result, she said.
Tap into the source of your motivation
Knowing exercise is good for physical and mental health may not be a strong enough motivator for some.
โIt has to be individualized and personalized to you,โ Hill told Gupta.
Achieving better health is the motivating factor to get physically active for her 77-year-old neighbor who had a heart attack in his late 60s. โI see the guy jogging down our street at 12 oโclock pretty much every day reliably,โ she said.
But Hill is not always motivated by knowing movement will help improve her health. What drives her is spending quality time with her 13-year-old son. He asked her to join him on his upcoming middle school bike trip โ an outing she dreaded, because she feared โbeing out of controlโ and falling off her bike.
โIt was this moment where, wow,โฏIโveโฏwrittenโฏa book on movement, andโฏIโmโฏunwilling to move my body becauseโฏitโsโฏtoo scary,โ she told Gupta. โฏBut she tapped into her intrinsic motivation and said yes.
The few weeks she spent with her son, learning from him how to ride a bike, were special and also translated intoโฏotherโฏparts of her life.
โIโm also learning about myself of how to be taught something, how to do something thatโs outside of my comfort zone in the service of something I care about,โ she said. Itโs good to stop before automatically saying no to things in life becauseโฏtheyโreโฏscary or theyโre uncomfortable, she noted.
Set up your home forโฏmovement
Create a space that actively funnels you toward physical activity as opposed to the couch, even if you are coming home exhausted after a long day of work.
Hillโs home has a TV room, but instead of a couch it has a basketball hoop and two rings that hang from the ceiling,โฏshe told Gupta, adding that whenโฏshe and her familyโฏwatch games, theyโฏalso play alongside the pros.
While that kind of extreme solution might not be right for or available to everyone, you can do something as simple as leaving your walking shoes by the front door. That way, you can slip them on and take a walk outside without a lot of inner debate.
As a bonus, the exercise itself will in turn generate good feelings by increasing levels of dopamine and serotonin, two mood-enhancing neurotransmitters, that will reinforce the behavior.
Practice self-compassion
Having concerns about your body image or your athletic ability is natural, Hill said, so be kind to yourself.
How can you be self-compassionate? Imagineโฏspeaking to yourself the way you would talk to a friend or loved one, Hill recommended.โฏFor example, what would you tell your daughterโฏwhoโs ashamedโฏof the way she moves her body during a yoga class?
โWhenโฏyouโreโฏself-compassionate,โฏyouโreโฏkind, you are mindful. You turn your attention back to just what is happening right now,โ she told CNN.
Self-compassion also taps into our shared humanity, Hill said. Many people in that yogaโฏclass may be grappling with something โ perhaps an image issue or chronic pain โ but what is going on below the surface may not be apparent. Hill said she developed an eating disorder when she was young and struggled with overexercising to burn off calories.
โMany of us feel likeโฏweโre not normal, but thatโs because there is no normal,โโฏshe said. โWhen you treat yourself with compassion, you may also see other people through more compassionate eyes.โ
Establish manageable exercise goals
Make your commitments smallโฏenough so that you can accomplish themโฏevery day and build from there.
If you get home after a long day,โฏcan you put on your sneakers and walk outside for two minutes instead of committing to 10 minutes?
Hill said every hour, during the 10-minute break between clients, she stretchesโฏher bodyโฏor walks around the proverbial block.โฏThese 10-minute bite-size sessions add up to a 60-minute workout when she does it six times a day.
In the end, physical activity isโฏnot just about improving your health, she said, it alsoโฏhelpsโฏyou becomeโฏwho you want to be and how you want to contribute to this world, which will ripple out and impact the people in your life.
โIf you want a motivationโฏthatโsโฏsustained over the long run, make it a big motivation thatโsโฏbigger than just you,โโฏshe said.
