I’m sure I’ve written on this before, but I thought the significance of obedience was important enough to repeat here. It occurs to me that obedience to God is an exercise in ‘want to’ as opposed to ‘have to.’ The analogy given in church is simple enough. When parents enforce rules and discipline with regard to their children, if the child is to respond out of respect and love, a true relationship must exist between parent and child.
If a wholesome relationship does indeed exist, then the child’s love for the parents will result in that child wanting to comply.If all one does is obey the rules because of the consequences and punishment associated with disobeying the rules, then the rules generally get thrown out the window when the rule maker is no longer around. I guess what I’m saying is that when grounded in love, people want to respond favorably according to the wishes and will of the person who is the object of thatlove. By our very nature we want to look good in the eyes of someone we’re trying to impress. Jesus says,“If anyone lovesme,he will obey my teaching.”John 14:23.Examine this use of the term obey.What Christ is saying is the same thing that manya mother and a father believe about their kids. First and foremost, we all know the things that would upset Mom and Dad. We know this because they have spent a lifetime (yours) instilling values and integrity into your character. You might still do things they wouldn’t condone, but you certainly know the difference between the right and wrong of it because of your upbringing.That upbringing, if nurtured in the spirit of love, reveals to all of us the source and nature of the consequences andthe resulting discipline. It’s love. We are all familiar with that ‘this is going to hurt me more than it’s going to hurt you’ thing.
Christ is merely reminding us that if you love Him, then obeying His rules, His teachings, which were given to us out of love of the Father, should come from the heart. Our desire to please should override our mere compliance to the rules. The point is obedience to God has so much more to do with wanting to do the right thing for the right reason, than doing the right thingbecause it is law.
One is the result of relationship and the other is the result of fear of consequence.
If all one does is obey the rules because of the consequences and punishment associated with disobeying the rules, then the rules generally get thrown out the window when the rule maker is no longer around.
Throughout scripture, Jesus constantly refers to the love of the Father. How many of you do what your mother would expect of you and your mother has been dead for many a year? How many of you pass those same expectations along to your kids? Why?
I submit that you do this because of the relationship you have/had with your mother.That’s why I’m convinced that the key to understanding obedience to God is establishing, or for many of us re-establishing, a relationship with the Almighty.This is achieved by studying His Word, getting inside of His commandments and examining the life of Jesus Christ, who because of a love thing with His Father, carried out His Father’s wishes to the letter. “I will not speak with you much longer, for the prince of this world is coming. He has no hold on me, but the world must learn that I love the Father and I do exactly what my Father has commanded me.” John 14:30-31.
To obey should be an act of love. Our goal should be to understand God’s love for us and to simply do our best to return it; act accordingly, so to speak.
May God bless and keep you always.
This column is from “Spiritually Speaking: Reflections for and from a New Christian” by James Washington. You can purchase this enlightening book on Amazon and start your journey towards spiritual enlightenment.